New York recently passed laws allowing surrogacy, and surrogacy professionals have established safe, agreed-upon procedures for this family-building process in the state.
Couples and individuals from a variety of backgrounds, ages, and sexual orientations use surrogacy to build their families, with each unique journey.Â
Surrogacy and egg donation have been helping straight and LGBTQ+ singles and couples in New York grow their families for decades. Intended parents are able to safely become parents in New York.Â
Below you’ll find information about surrogacy in New York, including what the surrogacy process looks like, how much surrogacy costs in New York, how to find a surrogate or egg donor, and so much more. The process can feel overwhelming at first, but the more you read and research, the more familiar it will become to you. Many professionals are involved in a surrogacy journey, and it is a life-changing experience.Â
We’re ready to help intended parents from New York City, Westchester, Long Island, or any other New York community. Read on to learn more about becoming a parent through surrogacy.
A surrogacy journey involves several milestones that lead to delivery day. Understanding and preparing for each of these steps is an important part of the process for intended parents.
Choosing to pursue surrogacy independently—without the assistance of a surrogacy agency—is an option available to anyone. That said, working with an agency such as Surrogacy4all which has almost 30 years of experience, helps you navigate the milestones and events throughout your journey. This enables you to concentrate on getting ready for your baby’s arrival.
If you do decide to work with an agency, it’s important to research your options. Some agencies may fit better with your specific needs and outlook. Choose one where you sense good chemistry, and which shares your views about the surrogacy process. It’s important to work with an agency whose lawyers are knowledgeable in ART (Assisted Reproductive Technology) and surrogacy law, especially in a state such as New York, which only recently introduced state laws regarding surrogacy.
Finding the right surrogate match assisted by our Matching Team is an exciting time during your journey. We’ll get to know you and your preferences for a match and work to find the woman who most closely fits your personality and legal and geographical requirements. The relationship between intended parents and their surrogates is so unique, that finding the right match is an important first step.
An egg donor is a young, fertile woman who donates her eggs to enable another individual or couple to create embryos to build them family. Once embryos are created, an embryo transfer will take place into either the intended parent’s or gestational surrogate’s uterus to carry the baby. Egg donation is beautiful path to parenthood.
If you require an egg donor for your surrogacy journey, Surrogacy4all recommends starting your search for an egg donor with our partner, surrogacy4all Egg Donation Program, who offers both fresh and frozen egg donor programs. surrogacy4all supports thoughtful decision-making for egg donation, including disclosed (known) donations and mutual matching between parents and donors. You can search their extensive database and learn about their programs. Many intended parents will search for a donor and create their embryos either coming to surrogacy or while they are waiting for a surrogate match.
If you select an egg donor with surrogacy4all and have selected Surrogacy4all as your surrogacy agency, your Surrogacy4all Surrogacy coordination team will be your support system during your egg donation and surrogacy journeys, giving you full support with one experienced team.
Developing a close relationship with your surrogate during pregnancy is an important part of the process. You may even be able to visit for her appointments if she lives close to you. Our agency supports you through each milestone, helping you prepare to travel for the birth and ensuring you have everything you need to return home safely.
We know that one of the first questions intended parents ask is how much surrogacy costs. Our comprehensive cost sheets outline the surrogacy costs you should expect in a typical surrogacy journey.
An exciting milestone in your journey to parenthood is matching with a surrogate. We work with gestational surrogates from New York, as well as surrounding states. If you’re looking for a surrogate mother in New York (or in neighboring states), we can help you find your surrogate match.
If you choose to work with Surrogacy4all, we ask intended parents to fill out a profile that help us get to know them better and find appropriate surrogate matches.Â
The information we ask for in the profile includes your:
Reasons for pursuing surrogacy
Sharing photos of yourself, your loved ones, and anything else that gives a good sense of who you are as people also helps us find the best possible surrogate matches.Â
Your Matching Team uses your answers—as well as your geographic location and views on termination— to find you the best possible surrogate match, so it’s important to be honest when thinking about how you answer these questions. That’s a key element of finding the best surrogate match for you.Â
Other preferences expressed by intended parents used when matching with your gestational carrier include:
Views on selective reduction and termination
You can use these criteria as guidelines as to what you should look for in a suitable match if you choose to pursue surrogacy without the assistance of an agency.
Ensure the surrogate has a clean bill of health, no history of significant medical conditions, and has had at least one successful pregnancy without complications.
Make sure the surrogate is fully aware of the legalities involved and is prepared
The surrogate should be emotionally stable, fully understand the implications of surrogacy, and be willing to undergo psychological evaluations to ensure readiness.
As mentioned earlier, New York has recently adopted new laws regulating surrogacy. That means you can still safely use the surrogacy process in the state, but it’s even more important to have an agency such as Surrogacy4all help you navigate that process. That way, everyone involved in your surrogacy journey is protected and has an advocate.
The New York Surrogacy Law – the Child-Parent Security Act – has made commercial surrogacy legal in New York. Intended Parents from New York can continue working with surrogacy4all, Surrogacy as they have in the past and take advantage of the new law.
Here’s what the new law means for intended parents:
Here’s what the new law means for gestational carriers:
Your surrogacy journey involves several key milestones that lead to the day you get to give your intended parents their baby. Understanding and preparing for each of these steps is an important part of the process, and our experienced team will be by your side for every step.
Working with an agency such as Surrogacy4all for your surrogate journey, which has almost 30 years of experience, means you’ll have a full team of support to navigate the milestones and events throughout your journey. This enables you to concentrate on getting ready for your baby’s arrival.Â
The surrogacy process can be looked at in seven steps:
What kind of women become surrogate mothers? They are generous, adventurous, and kind. They are teachers, nurses, and stay-at-home moms. They are passionate about their families. They are spirited, caring, and selfless. They are just like you.
We created the Surrogacy4all Promise because we truly care about our carriers, and we want each of them to have the most successful and rewarding journey possible. This program evolved after carriers shared their thoughts with their social workers or during their exit interviews. Those conversations led us to improve our offerings to our gestational carriers.
Not every gestational carrier has the same desires when it comes to the birth of their surrogate baby. At Surrogacy4all, our surrogates have choices for her preferred birth options, such as doula care, a hospital birth, or using a birth center with a midwife.
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Our new Surrogate Pay & Family Protection Program provides the following benefits:
Benefits you won’t find at any other agency
Our team supports you every step of the way—from the day you begin exploring surrogacy to your meeting with the prospective parents and throughout your entire pregnancy to birth.
We help surrogates navigate the screening process, ensuring they match with the perfect intended parent or parents, and guide them through the legal and social work aspects of surrogate parenting. Because many of us are experienced surrogates, we bring authentic passion to our work. Some members of our team have completed 3 surrogate journeys. Besides having world-class expertise in the myriad legal, social, and medical aspects of your surrogacy process, we deliver hands-on guidance that’s informed by our experience. If you have questions, we’ll have the answers.
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The prospective parents you help will be part of an incredible, intimate journey with you. And it’s why Surrogacy4all has developed a thorough matching process.Â
Your Surrogate Support Team uses personality profiles to find the perfect intended parent(s) for you. You’ll get to review each other’s profiles, ask questions, and generally feel each other out. We also help schedule an initial video call. The goal is to ensure both you and the intended parent(s) feel completely comfortable with the match. And of course, the surrogacy agreement only moves forward if you do.Â
We works with single parents, LGBTQ+ and heterosexual couples, domestic and international couples, and others. We’re confident you’ll be able to find a great match.
Various surrogacy agencies in New York specialize in matching intended parents with suitable surrogates, providing essential services such as screening, counseling, and coordination of the surrogacy process. To find a surrogate in New York, intended parents typically work with these agencies, which guide them through the selection process and help find a compatible surrogate.
The surrogacy process in New York involves several key steps: an initial consultation with a surrogacy agency, matching with a surrogate, undergoing medical and psychological screenings, drafting and signing legal contracts, performing embryo transfer, managing the pregnancy, and finally, ensuring the birth and legal finalization of parental rights. Gestational surrogacy, where the surrogate is not genetically related to the baby, is the most common type practiced in New York. Specialized surrogacy clinics in New York provide the necessary medical services, including fertility treatments, embryo transfers, and comprehensive care throughout the surrogate’s pregnancy. These clinics ensure that both the surrogate and the intended parents receive the best possible care and support during this life-changing journey.
A: The surrogacy process includes the following steps:
Our job is to listen, to connect the dots between your needs and how we can best help you to have your baby.
To make an appointment with one of our counselors or physicians, please call us at (212) 661-7673, or send us an email at info@surrogacy4all.com.
We look forward to hearing from you.
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